Wummy's Desk

Build your home on a solid ground with good foundation. Build LOVE, CARE and a SECRET FREE home, let your HOME be a REFLECTION of what you want for your NATION. It all really start from Home.                                                      ................................BRO.

STOP LOVING PEOPLE BEHIND THEIR BACK! When u love someone, let them know u do. How much you care for them,how much u miss them and how much you are dying to be with them should not be a secret, ALWAYS TELL THEM, they deserve to know. If u don't tell them, how did u expect them to know? Not telling them might make you lose them and make you live the rest of your life regretting that u never let them know how much you care.                                          ......................... Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

GOLDEN DREAMS! Having a GOLDEN DREAM is not enough, REALIZING the dream is SUPREME, but no dreams can be achieved by sleeping all day and keep on dreaming or by being intoxicated with pride over a dream not yet achieved. To ACTUALIZE a dream, we need to rise and pursue the dreams with the DECISION to achieve it, DEDICATION directly to it and DETERMINATION that we are just unstoppable.                                      ............................ Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

Marriage, though is a blessing but more than drumming and dancing, once u enter the small room and sign, they lock the room and throw the key away. No one now not your mum, dad nor siblings, it's just the two of you; Habeebi and Habeebati. Choose your roommate wisely.                                                      ................... Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

PERSEVERANCE AND always persevere. Perseverance is important in dealing with people, it's normal for us to act differently as we all have different traits that we carry around, so don't be surprise when anyone hurts u, just persevere and accommodate them. Not all insult from them needs your retaliation, just learn from dealing with them and be positive. Persevering and keeping calm is the best to win a lot people over but if u keep retaliating they move away from u. Imagine the dumping site and learn from it, u also need to act that way at times.                                             .................Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

BEAUTY Beauty is in d eyes of the beholder, a beautiful face u are dying for might be totally ugly to others and vice versa. There are series of definition to the word Beauty; according to some dictionaries, it is the qualities that give pleasure to the senses/ the quality of being pleasing to the senses or to the mind. But my own definition of beauty is, a peaceful state of mind that radiate from within the soul and heart to give an outward glow to the physical appearance. Then u can say it is pleasing. Not disputing the fact that beauty is in d eye of the beholder. Why? Because your own definition of beauty is different from mine. So what u see as something beautiful might be totally ugly to me and also there is a law that says; u attract your type I.e. how u behave and carry yourself will determine who you attract and seems beautiful to. Analysis of My Own Definition Beauty is a peaceful state of mind that radiate from the heart and soul to give an outward glow to the physical a

MAKE PEACE! IT'S normal to get angry but minimize your anger and if u are angry at someone let that person know u are angry at him/her cos it's possible u are angry at someone who doesn't even know u are angry at him/her, if this is the case how did u expect them to apologize? So always state your anger and reasons to the one you are angry at, by so doing they will know how to apologize and we will also have a settled mind. Be a peace maker.                                                                            .....................................BRO.

A DAY INDEED! When I think of this day(wedding day), I don't know maybe we should DANCE/CRY. Yes we can dance because it's victory, Found the MR RIGHT AT LAST BYE TO ALL THE SINGLE LADIES and Yes we can cry a bit if we think of WHAT MARRIAGE REALLY IS and take a look at the HUGE RESPONSIBILITY ahead of us. No wonder the two did happen.                                          ................................ Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

WOMEN Women are Divine Creature, most valuable treasure of Allah, they are Allah's most precious jewel, the most precious pearl, the most wonderful and interesting creature he created and also the most valuable and priceless gift he give to men. They deserve respect, Respect them.                                                                          .......Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

Marriage is more than getting married to the man/woman u love and having kids, oh a sweet family or not? Be calm, choose wisely because your marriage can lead u either straight to paradise or hell.                                                                          .............................Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

When u hear about MARRIAGE, don't dare RUSH IN u might end up RUSHING OUT. Take your time outside, being SINGLE is not a crime but DIVORCE is, even Allah hates divorce and once u divorce him/her people will start counting. So be calm, take your time either you are SINGLE or you are MARRIED forever and ever. Never give room for counts.                                                                                                                ............. Bakare Rofiat Omowumi.

A BIG FOOL;     Who is this big fool? He is the most idiotic have ever seen, all he  thinks of, wears and carry around is the fact that he is a man please tell him we already know that indeed he is a man and that doesn’t make him Allah. He walks around with pride and got no regards for women. He is just too big to think like a human. He is indeed a big fool all he thinks of is that he is superior to the precious jewel around him to the extent that;  He doesn't notice that his wife is not just for decoration she needs some love and care. He doesn’t even know how lonely his wife has become yet they are married. He doesn't realize that this relationship is give and take, he also need to swallow his pride and say sorry. He doesn't even know the state of his wife yet he claims he loves her, what a love? He doesn't even notice his sick child, too superior for that, it’s the wife’s role right? He doesn't notice it, the tears of his wife and how sad she has become, n